Welcome, and congratulations on taking such an initiative to becoming healthier.
Where in Howard County are you? If you are far enough north, Brian 'Doc Akh' Belida is in Westminster (Carroll County). There are a few guys that post here in Baltimore if you are closer to the city. Then there's a decent size group in Anne Arundle County (Glen Burnie, Pasadena, Severna Park, Arnold), and a large contingent in DC that frequents Primal Fitness and usually announces about a jam (get together to train and help each other) a month.
Many people frequent the 'Mid Atlantic' Forums that are the last 'locals only' page. I usually suggest double posting in both the Mid-Atlantic and Maryland sections.